Dysfunctional Planner

How often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals?

So when I make plans to garden and they are interrupted with friends events then I just make sure that I get up earlier to achieve what I want to.

I like to say no a lot. Especially if it’s it’s not my direct friends. If I have had a tough week or just want to relax then I plan things for Friday nights but I am a home body. Also if it means leaving Frank alone, when he has already had a stressful day then I would rather spend time with him. The build is a lot in a dog.

If you cancel on me, I really don’t mind. In fact I love it. You have given me the gift of time.

But outside of work my goals I just have small self achievements. I wrote 8 this year and so far I am pretty much on target, except for the fitness one, which is shocking because have a pool party in Vegas I want to look toned for!

My main goals this year are creating a beautiful home inside and out, May garden I want to be fruitful but I want to pay attention to the friendships and family I spend time with.

Everything else can just wait.

Cancer was a big blip on last year so me and Gavin are just grateful that he is here to share it with me.

So tell the people you love you love them, and check your stool, it may save your life.