Dysfunctional Planner

What’s the trait you value most about yourself? I try to be kind. I know as a child I could be selfish and lash out, forgetting that words have barbs. I thought that being funny meant being mean. I would describe myself as mean inks I am angry. I alway want to be a good…

What could you do more of? I wish I could focus more. I am definitely one of thousands of women in their forties that have ADHD. I have all the signs, getting distracted easily, hyper focus, room laziness. I honestly wish I could focus and complete more, by my life is full of “que Será”…

How often do you walk? Walking is good for the soul. It’s gentle exercise and great a stress reliever. This photo is from last nights big walk. The trees are turning gold and it smells like autumn.

Do you see yourself as a leader? Can I take charge of a situation yes, but I am happy to take a back seat now. I left two jobs I absolutely loved and thought were my futures and I wanted to climb so high but now no. No more climbing, well maybe a little bit.…

What are you doing this evening? Humble plans of a French onion soup Mac and cheese plans. Saw it on TikTok and making it tonight. A glass of red wine, finishing Kingdom of Ash, the book and tidying the kitchen. Not very exiting…. Oh yes it our legal wedding anniversary! 5 years today we tied…

Are you holding a grudge? Grudges and hate holds you back, it burns you up and eats you from the inside. Bitter people are not happy people. So don’t feed the fire of negativity. Let it go. It doesn’t mean you have to forgive or forget, just don’t spend your time and energy on them…

Share a story about the furthest you’ve ever traveled from home. He was my first love and a good boyfriend until he wasn’t. He adored me and made me feel like the most important person in the world. We were friends for 6 months before I accepted there was something between us. He promised me…

What does your ideal home look like? We are creating our ideal home. The build may be at a standstill but the interiors are not. I have shared some on my mood boards before but I happy to share them again. A little retrospect for those who are new to my blog, we had a…

How are you feeling right now? Yesterday was a good day but Frank didn’t sleep as well as I thought he was. I should have taken him out for a quick walk before bed. I will do that tonight and see if it makes a difference. Our walk today was shorter and at 6:30 so…