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Being grateful: A Pre thank you

I am trying to prethank all my wedding party for what they are about to do, or have already done for me. Weddings can cause rifts and there is nothing like a wedding to bring out the worst in people. I have a wonderful team of Danettes family and friends who have offered to help…
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I need Shelp! Wedding Shoe search continues

Yes I spelt it right, I need Shelp. Shoe help! I want a beautiful pair of shoes to walk up the isle in, twice. At the moment the law doesn’t acknowledge humanist ceremony as legal which means I have to get married twice. This does not make me happy, except I have bought both dresses…
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Hello Reader

Thank you for reading my little blog, where I rant and praise in equal measure. I love my blog, it is my little burgeoning baby. I wish I could spend some more time on it. So I was thinking ofdoing a little Wednesday catch up to let you know how the planning is going andthen…
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Self Help books should not make you feel guilty

Life can get hectic and we can do a few things to sort our selves out. Have a mini break down, scream and shout, focus on the issue, break it down into manageable chunks or if none of these work then just seek help. Self help books can aid us in this, if we need…
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Saving is hard

January is always hard on the budget but with saving for the wedding this month has been even harder. Everything adds up. Weddings are just money traps. I am doing well with my savings as long as I keep going. Hermit life for me I have basically been a hermit for this month. I don’t…
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Clean Slate: Bullet Journalling likes and dislikes
January always feels like a clean slate. Maybe its that everything looks dead but there is lots of promise growing beneath the surface. We just need to patient and soon we will have spring, blossom and all its glory. It has come around so quickly. After The chaos of Christmas we naturally have a clean out, put all…
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Living with Dyspraxia
Firstly, I didn’t know I was dyspraxic and mildly dyslexic until I was university, in my second year. It wasn’t a shock, it just made sense. I had to do my research about what it meant and means. The truth was I was 21 and fully functioning. I chose an Art degree because I am…
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Bridesmaid Sucks: wedding eye rolling
The role of the bridesmaid is to help you get to your big day. The history of bridesmaids just sucks… single maids who hope to be next. This does not fit into my life. It’s doesn’t fit in to modern life. I want to be surrounded by people I love and they have actually crept…
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Setting Goals: Happy new year
I am not a fan on overpriced New Year’s Eve parties. I feel they are a waste of money and energy! You can enjoy the same evening on a normal Saturday night out!But I don’t mind a house party or a nice meal with friends. I have had some great New Years. Two Hogmanay’s in…
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Christmas Panic Consumerism: None of it matters

It’s Friday 21st December Christmas Day is in 5 days. If you are working right up until Christmas you may not have as much time as you think. Online shopping is now not reliable not even Amazon Prime delivers the next day anymore ( it sometimes does, but sometimes isn’t reliable). It is time to hit the…
